READ
ABOUT PEOPLES' POSITIVE ATTITUDE TOWARDS LIFE AND LEARN THE
MAGIC OF NOT GIVING UP EVEN WHEN THE GOING GETS TOUGH.
The Passenger
The
passengers on the bus watched sympathetically as the attractive young
woman with the white cane made her way carefully up the steps. She paid
the driver and, using her hands to feel the location of the seats,
walked down the aisle and found the seat he'd told her was empty. Then
she settled in, placed her briefcase on her lap and rested her cane
against her leg.
It
had been a year since Susan, thirty-four, became blind. Due to a medical
misdiagnosis, she had been rendered sightless, and she was suddenly
thrown into a world of darkness, anger, frustration and self-pity. Once
a fiercely independent woman, Susan now felt condemned by this terrible
twist of fate to become a powerless, helpless burden on everyone around
her. "How could this have happened to me?" she would plead, her heart
knotted with anger. But no matter how much she cried or ranted or
prayed, she knew the painful truth-her sight was never going to return.
A cloud of depression hung over Susan's once optimistic spirit. Just
getting through each day was an exercise in frustration and exhaustion.
And all she had to cling to was her husband Mark.
Mark
was an Air Force officer, and he loved Susan with all of his heart. When
she first lost her sight, he watched her sink into despair and was
determined to help his wife gain the strength and confidence she needed
to become independent again. Mark's military background had trained him
well to deal with sensitive situations, and yet he knew this was the
most difficult battle he would ever face.
Finally, Susan felt ready to return to her job, but how would she get
there? She used to take the bus, but was now too frightened to get
around the city by herself. Mark volunteered to drive her to work each
day, even though they worked at opposite ends of the city. At first,
this comforted Susan and fulfilled Mark's need to protect his sightless
wife who was so insecure about performing the slightest task. Soon,
however, Mark realized that this arrangement wasn't working - it was
hectic, and costly. Susan is going to have to start taking the bus
again, he admitted to himself. But just the thought of mentioning it to
her made him cringe. She was still so fragile, so angry. How would she
react?
Just
as Mark predicted, Susan was horrified at the idea of taking the bus
again. "I'm blind!" she responded bitterly. "How am I supposed to know
where I'm going? I feel like you're abandoning me." Mark's heart broke
to hear these words, but he knew what had to be done. He promised Susan
that each morning and evening he would ride the bus with her, for as
long as it took, until she got the hang of it. And that is exactly what
happened.
For
two solid weeks, Mark, military uniform and all, accompanied Susan to
and from work each day. He taught her how to rely on her other senses,
specifically her hearing, to determine where she was and how to adapt to
her new environment. He helped her befriend the bus drivers who could
watch out for her, and save her a seat. He made her laugh, even on those
not-so-good days when she would trip exiting the bus, or drop her
briefcase. Each morning, they made the journey together, and Mark would
take a cab back to his office. Although this routine was even more
costly and exhausting than the previous one, Mark knew it was only a
matter of time before Susan would be able to ride the bus on her own. He
believed in her, in the Susan he used to know before she'd lost her
sight, who wasn't afraid of any challenge and who would never, ever
quit. Finally, Susan decided that she was ready to try the trip on her
own. Monday morning arrived, and before she left, she threw her arms
around Mark, her temporary bus riding companion, her husband, and her
best friend. Her eyes filled with tears of gratitude for his loyalty,
his patience, his love. She said good-bye, and for the first time, they
went their separate ways. Monday, Tuesday, Wednesday, Thursday ... Each
day on her own went perfectly, and Susan had never felt better. She was
doing it! She was going to work all by herself!
On
Friday morning, Susan took the bus to work as usual. As she was paying
for her fare to exit the bus, the driver said, "Boy, I sure envy you."
Susan wasn't sure if the driver was speaking to her or not. After all,
who on earth would ever envy a blind woman who had struggled just to
find the courage to live for the past year? Curious, she asked the
driver, "Why do you say that you envy me?" The driver responded, "It
must feel so good to be taken care of and protected like you are." Susan
had no idea what the driver was talking about, and asked again, "What do
you mean?" The driver answered, "You know, every morning for the past
week, a fine looking gentleman in a military uniform has been standing
across the corner watching you when you get off the bus. He makes sure
you cross the street safely, and he watches you until you enter your
office building. Then he blows you a kiss, gives you a little salute and
walks away. You are one lucky lady."
Tears of happiness poured down Susan's cheeks. For although she couldn't
physically see him, she had always felt Mark's presence. She was
blessed, so blessed, for he had given her a gift more powerful than
sight, a gift she didn't need to see to believe - the gift of love that
can bring light where there had been darkness.
God
watches over us in just the same way. We may not know He is present. We
may not be able to see His face, but He is there nonetheless!
My
Wish For You Today
is to be blessed in this thought:
"God Loves You - even when you are not looking."